In love, yourself should be the first. Does this sound selfish to you? Yes it can be but allow me to go on further. In order to effectively show your love to others, you should have enough charge of love within you. I do not mean that you overdo the love for yourself because the love that you have for yourself is meant to be shared to others. Set your priorities as to how you’re going to divide such love. And when you will start to distribute them, be wise with whom you choose to give a portion of your love to. By being wise, you will not just give away your love in vain but expect it to be multiplied. Spread the love!